My Things

I read a few days ago an article on a blog, it was about a dude that wanted back the gifts from his girlfriend. The dude was pissed off cause she ditch him. When he found out that she was cheating (hmm... I wonder why she cheated), well, he went nuts. And so he wrote to her to give him back the teddy bear, the dvd and a pair of underwear... A pair of bikini... Are u kidding me? What in The God's Name is he gonna do with that? Give them to the his next girl?
Anyway, my point is that I see things like this all the time, there are people in this world that instead of channel the energy in making the best out of a break up, they are losing time with UNDERWEAR.
Some time ago one of my friends broke up with her guy and she left some stuff at his place, she just left them there and never intended to reclaim them. It's ok as far as I am concerned, but I'm just not that type. I either take everything I OWN (not what is his - gifts or something like that), either I ask somebody to do that for me. I found it unnecessary to leave behind stuff that is mine so that the next could see that there was someone else before her... Men are stupid, they leave things from their ex and nevermind the fact that it could be disturbing for the present girlfriend to see stuff from the woman before her. It's like... let's see what shampoo is she using, what close is she wearing (that way you know is the ex fat or slim). Common, it's lame. My things belong to my place, and if I did the stupidity to leave something behind I'll make sure I get it back. Ofcourse that doesn't include his underwear :))I think it's a question of respect, and I for one, I do respect my self enough to not do what I know it's disturbing me, to others.
And Yes I do want my umbrella back, it's a question of principle. I like my umbrella, and I could buy 10 of them, but that one is already mine.I also think that men are idiots if they think by not giving back things that don't belong to them, it will give women an excuse to call them. Stupid and LAME again. I don't give a fuck about u if I did dumped you (and even if that wasn't the case). But, if I dumped u and 6 months later I still don't give a fuck about you... What's wrong with you? Give me back my umbrella motherfucker, the only thing you make me do it's to be furious!!